Keeping It Real With Family
My Life
My Personal Journey Through Life
Stereotyped From The Beginning
Last Tuesday I had a conversation with my supervisor at work. I don’t really have much to say about him, but you should know that he is a black man and a bootlicking coon. He is nice. He is educated. I hold nothing personal against the man. If he had …
No Support System
At various points in my life I have thought about taking my life. Often during those times there was nothing really wrong in my life. I was employed, healthy, and at least functional. But there was something wrong. I found it hard to live day-to-day and to cope with the …
Keeping It Real With Family
Today I said some things to my aunt that should have been said years ago. This whole thing started when she texted me a few days ago, and asked if my dad had told me about the Christmas get together she and another aunt were planning someplace. I answered no …
Four & A Half Years Of Growth!
It’s been four and a half years since I started growing my locs and I couldn’t be happier! I have my good and bad days, but I think this is one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. I look good with them!
A Case For Polyamory
Special thanks to Indigo for sharing this video with me. The video makes a case for polyamory. It’s good stuff. Check it out… For those of you giving me the side-eye for admitting I desire to fuck other women while also being in a relationship….consider this… Most black women are …
Random Thoughts
Various Things That Cross My Mind
Why I Don’t Respond To Some Of You
The above is a real message I received on Facebook, and that’s the real response she got from me. I truly believe there is something wrong with some of the people who read and follow my blog. Some of these women are lonely, closeted, scared as hell, and flat out …
Dreams Are Meant For Everyone…Except Black People
Dreams are meant for everyone….except black people….or at least that’s the way that it seems. Do you think when black parents tell their children, “You can do anything you put your mind to” they really believe it? I don’t…let me explain why… When I was a little girl I had …
This Is Why I Don’t Give Interviews…
I don’t typically give interviews though I get several request to do so. I’ve never really been interested in doing interviews. When I usually get a request to do an interview I ignore it. I think I’ve probably done three since I started this blog. Other than the fact that …
Social Issues
My Thoughts On Various Social Issues
The World As We Know It Today
The world as we know it today is fucked up. We have racist sexist bigot as president. The Supreme Court is now in the hands of conservatives. Fascism has gained steam in Germany, Sweden, Brazil and several other countries. A caravan of migrants are headed for the USA due to the …
Serena Williams Doesn’t Owe Anyone Shit
Serena Williams doesn’t owe anyone shit…and neither does any other black woman. Everyone is talking about her outburst at the US Open in which she lost in the finals. The controversy stems from the righteous outrage Serena displayed towards the empire and during the match. If you missed it you …
Get Mad At The Preacher But Ignore The Niggas & Hoodrats
Everyone is talking about Reverend Jasper Williams Jr., the preacher who gave the eulogy at Aretha Franklin’s funeral. Not surprisingly, most black people hated his eulogy. Why? Truthfully…because he put our dirty laundry in the streets. That’s the only reason I can see why black people would be mad about …