I can’t do it anymore. God knows I have tried. I’ve had this blog for ten years, and you’ve read my struggle with finding a childless, educated, attractive, black lesbian who is comfortable with her sexual orientation. Hell, this has been the most reoccurring rant on this blog. If you’re …

My personal life sucks. It’s non-existent right now. I’m neither sad nor mad about it. I accept it for what it is, and I’ve decided to keep it moving. In the meantime, I have added a whole new group of people to my list of folks who I will never …

I’m thinking maybe I need to do some soul-searching. This realization comes from a conversation I had today with a co-worker/friend. It all began innocent enough with me asking her about a fine woman at the job, but then it turned into her telling me about myself… Long story short…she’s …

It’s over between Ms. Feel Good and me. I know you’re probably thinking, “Damn that was quick” but the decision was ultimately mine. Saturday I decided to let go and move on with my life… The biggest issue we seem to have is our age difference. She is twelve years …

I have a new lady in my life and I couldn’t be happier. As with most of my women, it was completely random. Let me tell you about it… On Saturday I went to CVS to pick up the medication I was prescribed by my doctor for an ear infection. …

I’m ready to leave Atlanta. I know I have said that before, but this time I mean it. There are a number of reasons why I want to leave. I won’t go into those reasons as I have made my thoughts on Atlanta very clear in the 10 years I …

I am going to host my very first group chat on Skype! Unlike previous group chats, you will have the ability to actually speak with me, and hear my voice in this chat. The theme for this chat is “Ask Me Anything.” This is self-explanatory. This is your opportunity to …

I am making an important change to my blog. If you are subscribing to my blog via email this will no longer be an option for you. I am moving away from email subscriptions and mailchimp for the simple fact that the service is a headache. I know some people …

This is a conversation between Indigo and me about black lesbians with kids. The conversation stems from a post I made on my Facebook page in which I said there is nothing worse than meeting an attractive woman and finding out she got kids. A correction to something I said …

After my last blog post, another question has been raised about African American descendants of Slaves asserting ourselves as an ethnic group that excludes all other blacks. For the stake of reparations only, who is considered a descendant of slaves? For this post let’s first establish a few things: I …

Something interesting is happening with African Americans in this country. Seemingly out of nowhere African Americans have gained some freaking ethnic pride and I’m here for it. There is a grassroots movement brewing among African Americans to have a complete and separate official title strictly for us that doesn’t include …

Bennett College is in trouble. I found out about it yesterday. For those of you who don’t know, Bennett College is a HBCU (Historically Black College and University) located in North Carolina. It is the oldest black women’s college in the country, and one of two in the country devoted …