How Accurate Is Ancestry DNA?
My Life
My Personal Journey Through Life
Four & A Half Years Of Growth!
It’s been four and a half years since I started growing my locs and I couldn’t be happier! I have my good and bad days, but I think this is one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. I look good with them!
A Case For Polyamory
Special thanks to Indigo for sharing this video with me. The video makes a case for polyamory. It’s good stuff. Check it out… For those of you giving me the side-eye for admitting I desire to fuck other women while also being in a relationship….consider this… Most black women are …
My Move Towards Polyamory
My life has taken a drastic turn, and I couldn’t be happier. Part of me believes this was inevitable. As much as I want to get married and raise a family I must admit there is something unappealing about monogamous relationships. It doesn’t matter how great my partner is and …
My Attraction To Another Woman
I’ve been missing in action from this blog, and that’s because I’ve been sitting around feeling bad about myself for being attracted to another woman who is NOT Sapphire. I mean I’ve really been feeling bad about myself. Not simply because I’m attracted to this woman, but because I’ve been …
How Accurate Is Ancestry DNA?
I am a firm believer in DNA. I think it is God’s gift to man, criminology, genealogy, science and specifically African Americans. I say this for a few reasons. DNA and genealogy are helping to solve cold cases. Long forgotten cases are being reopened thanks to DNA and genealogy. The …
Random Thoughts
Various Things That Cross My Mind
Guest Bloggers Wanted!
I am opening my blog to guest bloggers! The reason why I’m doing this is because I’m interested in reading deep personal stories about lesbians. I’m fairly certain many of you are interested in the same thing. After all, isn’t this partly what attracted you to my blog in the …
Dreams Are Meant For Everyone…Except Black People
Dreams are meant for everyone….except black people….or at least that’s the way that it seems. Do you think when black parents tell their children, “You can do anything you put your mind to” they really believe it? I don’t…let me explain why… When I was a little girl I had …
This Is Why I Don’t Give Interviews…
I don’t typically give interviews though I get several request to do so. I’ve never really been interested in doing interviews. When I usually get a request to do an interview I ignore it. I think I’ve probably done three since I started this blog. Other than the fact that …
Social Issues
My Thoughts On Various Social Issues
Serena Williams Doesn’t Owe Anyone Shit
Serena Williams doesn’t owe anyone shit…and neither does any other black woman. Everyone is talking about her outburst at the US Open in which she lost in the finals. The controversy stems from the righteous outrage Serena displayed towards the empire and during the match. If you missed it you …
Get Mad At The Preacher But Ignore The Niggas & Hoodrats
Everyone is talking about Reverend Jasper Williams Jr., the preacher who gave the eulogy at Aretha Franklin’s funeral. Not surprisingly, most black people hated his eulogy. Why? Truthfully…because he put our dirty laundry in the streets. That’s the only reason I can see why black people would be mad about …
My Solution To The WNBA’s Problems!
Indigo and I discuss my solution to the WNBA’s problems. The league is not making any money. Yet many of the players want to be paid more and some are even pointing out a disparity between their salary and that of men in the NBA. I offer my solutions to …