Quite a few middle aged black lesbians read my blog. I didn’t realize this until fairly recently after noticing the ages of the people who responded to my survey, and who follow me on Facebook. Based on the surveys I received from many of them they are not comfortable with their sexual orientation.

This is surprising to me because I wouldn’t expect this from middle aged women. If this were coming from young women who are in their teens and early twenties I would understand. At that point in life they are leaving the nest and exploring the world. However, forty plus year old women have already been in the real world. At forty they have likely lived half their life. Yet for reasons I don’t quite understand these women are not comfortable with their sexual orientation.

I approached my friend, Indigo, with this subject and together we talked about it. Take a listen…

 

  1. Middle Aged Black Lesbians Who Are Not Comfortable With Their Sexual Orientation By Lezintellect & Indigo 34:10

 

Also, here is an anonymous survey for middle aged black women who read this blog. Please take time out to complete it. It’s anonymous and I just want to understand more about your life experiences. After all, in seven years I will be one of you…