“You are the last person I need in my life!” That’s what I said to Yellowbone yesterday after I walked away from the table we shared at the food court at the mall. I’m quite certain she was surprised, but it is the truth, and I’m glad I said what …
Yellowbone has literally breezed back into my life. I’m tired and I don’t feel like writing a whole post. I’ll get around to that this weekend. All I have to say is WHY LORD….WHY??
Indigo and I discuss my solution to the WNBA’s problems. The league is not making any money. Yet many of the players want to be paid more and some are even pointing out a disparity between their salary and that of men in the NBA. I offer my solutions to …
There is a lot of stuff that I wish I’d learned in school that simply was not taught. The public education system in this country needs to undergo a full scale overhaul because as far as I can tell it is an antiquated system that teaches bullshit. I say that …
Quite a few middle aged black lesbians read my blog. I didn’t realize this until fairly recently after noticing the ages of the people who responded to my survey, and who follow me on Facebook. Based on the surveys I received from many of them they are not comfortable with …
I have created a five question survey to gauge your reaction to the two podcasts I have posted on this blog. I use the word “podcast” loosely because what you have here is just me talking into a recorder. The recordings I have posted don’t have much production value and …
Good news folks! Now you can call and text me directly. I have set up a Google Voice account specifically to communicate with you, my readers, directly. When you call and text me it goes directly to my cellphone via the google voice phone number. Before I start getting a …
Last night I had a very strange dream. It was a hell of a dream! The dream was so good that I rolled over and called into work. There was something unsettling about the dream now that I’m wide awake and thinking about it… I dreamed I was fucking my …
I don’t have any family support. I’ve been alone in this world since my grandma died in 2014. I haven’t felt whole since her death. There is a big hole in my heart and I don’t think it can be filled. I haven’t had any family support since her death. …
This is my very first podcast. You can tell I’m nervous and pretty green. In the future I won’t have the mic so close to my face. Don’t judge me too harshly. This is my first time. Let my know your thoughts… Topic: The Transgender Wave Hits Morehouse… …
Well, I said transgender people are mentally ill. I stand by that more now than ever. Take a look at the rant above that was posted on Facebook by a transgender nutcase. This individual made a whole rant attacking “cis” black women. Click on the image to read his full …
I’ve been thinking a lot about money, retirement and how my finances will change now that I’m living with Sapphire. When she moved in she insisted on helping me with the bills. I declined the offer because I’m capable of handling the household bills myself. We went back and forth …
This blog is my response to your survey responses about Sapphire and to one crazy ass bitch, who won’t take a fucking hike. Most of your surveys were respectful and to the point. I appreciate those of you who kept it real without coming at me on some disrespectful bullshit. …
What is it about Sapphire that bugs some of you? I really want to know, and I’ve created an anonymous one question survey for you to tell me. It seems to me some people who read this blog would far rather see me lonely, miserable, unhappy, or jumping from woman …
My new life started today. Sapphire is officially my new roommate, and with her comes new dreams for the future. She’s asleep right now beside me in bed…exhausted from the move. I couldn’t be happier to have her by my side….hopefully for the rest of my life. Yesterday, I went …
I have created a survey for you, my readers, to help me get to know you. The survey has 12 questions and it is completely ANONYMOUS. Eleven of the questions are mandatory while one question is optional. The idea behind the survey is this: You know just about everything there …
My life is changing at a rapid pace. Now is probably a good time to make some much needed life changing decisions. Sapphire is set to move in with me. I helped her pack some of her stuff on Saturday. Some of her things are being put into public storage …
Sapphire is going to be my wife. I’m more convinced of that now than ever before. Our relationship has taken a turn, and it seems we’re both ready to take some necessary steps to grow with each other in a positive direction… Yesterday, Sapphire made an unannounced visit to my …
Does a woman sexual history matter? This is the question I ask myself whenever I meet a woman. The short answer is yes it does matter, but is there ever a situation when it’s not so black and white? In my mid/late twenties I was arguably a hoe. I went …
Black women and abortion (two subjects that seem to become one when the topic of abortion comes up…more on this later) are a hot button issue right now. Why? Because Trump is getting his choice of a new supreme court justice, and the one that he picked is pro-life. So, …
