My personal life sucks. It’s non-existent right now. I’m neither sad nor mad about it. I accept it for what it is, and I’ve decided to keep it moving. In the meantime, I have added a whole new group of people to my list of folks who I will never …
I’m thinking maybe I need to do some soul-searching. This realization comes from a conversation I had today with a co-worker/friend. It all began innocent enough with me asking her about a fine woman at the job, but then it turned into her telling me about myself… Long story short…she’s …
It’s over between Ms. Feel Good and me. I know you’re probably thinking, “Damn that was quick” but the decision was ultimately mine. Saturday I decided to let go and move on with my life… The biggest issue we seem to have is our age difference. She is twelve years …
I have a new lady in my life and I couldn’t be happier. As with most of my women, it was completely random. Let me tell you about it… On Saturday I went to CVS to pick up the medication I was prescribed by my doctor for an ear infection. …
This is a conversation between Indigo and me about black lesbians with kids. The conversation stems from a post I made on my Facebook page in which I said there is nothing worse than meeting an attractive woman and finding out she got kids. A correction to something I said …
Black lesbian support groups….as far as I can tell they don’t exist. In my thirty-three years on this earth I have only encountered one black lesbian support group, and its membership consisted of women old enough to be my mother and grandma. It was an internet forum where the members …
I bet you’re wondering why I have the logo for Delta Sigma Theta Sorority as the header image for this blog post. You’ll understand why shortly. This blog is a follow up to the blog I wrote yesterday. I was surprised by the response I received from people on Facebook. …
There is something that bothers me. It bothers me so much that I sometimes break down crying just thinking about it. I’m holding back tears as I type this post. You would think at this point in my life something like this would be behind me, but it is not. …
In 2019 I plan to make some changes in my life. I know you’ve heard that from me before, but this time it’s out of necessity more than anything else. I’m doing it for my sanity and personal well-being. Next year I’ll be thirty-four years old. Time sure does fly …
Last Tuesday I had a conversation with my supervisor at work. I don’t really have much to say about him, but you should know that he is a black man and a bootlicking coon. He is nice. He is educated. I hold nothing personal against the man. If he had …
The above is a real message I received on Facebook, and that’s the real response she got from me. I truly believe there is something wrong with some of the people who read and follow my blog. Some of these women are lonely, closeted, scared as hell, and flat out …
At various points in my life I have thought about taking my life. Often during those times there was nothing really wrong in my life. I was employed, healthy, and at least functional. But there was something wrong. I found it hard to live day-to-day and to cope with the …
Today I said some things to my aunt that should have been said years ago. This whole thing started when she texted me a few days ago, and asked if my dad had told me about the Christmas get together she and another aunt were planning someplace. I answered no …
It’s been four and a half years since I started growing my locs and I couldn’t be happier! I have my good and bad days, but I think this is one of the best decisions I ever made for myself. I look good with them!
I am a firm believer in DNA. I think it is God’s gift to man, criminology, genealogy, science and specifically African Americans. I say this for a few reasons. DNA and genealogy are helping to solve cold cases. Long forgotten cases are being reopened thanks to DNA and genealogy. The …
I think I know when this blog will end. I never intended for it to continue forever. All good things must come to an end. Next year will make ten years that I’ve owned and operated this blog, and next year will be the end. I think I will officially …
I’ve been exposed. My philanthropy has been discovered. It’s been discovered by a member of my family no less. Let me explain… A little over a year ago, I received word from my father that the Baptist church that has long been a cornerstone for my family is going through …
Serena Williams doesn’t owe anyone shit…and neither does any other black woman. Everyone is talking about her outburst at the US Open in which she lost in the finals. The controversy stems from the righteous outrage Serena displayed towards the empire and during the match. If you missed it you …
Soul food, soul music, and my soulmate…three things I love! At this point, it shouldn’t be a secret that I love soul music, soul food, and Sapphire. There is nothing more beautiful to me than all three coming together like they did on Monday… Recall, that I planned to give …
Dreams are meant for everyone….except black people….or at least that’s the way that it seems. Do you think when black parents tell their children, “You can do anything you put your mind to” they really believe it? I don’t…let me explain why… When I was a little girl I had …
