Special thanks to Indigo for sharing this video with me. The video makes a case for polyamory. It’s good stuff. Check it out… For those of you giving me the side-eye for admitting I desire to fuck other women while also being in a relationship….consider this… Most black women are …
My life has taken a drastic turn, and I couldn’t be happier. Part of me believes this was inevitable. As much as I want to get married and raise a family I must admit there is something unappealing about monogamous relationships. It doesn’t matter how great my partner is and …
I’ve been missing in action from this blog, and that’s because I’ve been sitting around feeling bad about myself for being attracted to another woman who is NOT Sapphire. I mean I’ve really been feeling bad about myself. Not simply because I’m attracted to this woman, but because I’ve been …
Soul food, soul music, and my soulmate…three things I love! At this point, it shouldn’t be a secret that I love soul music, soul food, and Sapphire. There is nothing more beautiful to me than all three coming together like they did on Monday… Recall, that I planned to give …
“You are the last person I need in my life!” That’s what I said to Yellowbone yesterday after I walked away from the table we shared at the food court at the mall. I’m quite certain she was surprised, but it is the truth, and I’m glad I said what …
Yellowbone has literally breezed back into my life. I’m tired and I don’t feel like writing a whole post. I’ll get around to that this weekend. All I have to say is WHY LORD….WHY??
Indigo and I discuss my solution to the WNBA’s problems. The league is not making any money. Yet many of the players want to be paid more and some are even pointing out a disparity between their salary and that of men in the NBA. I offer my solutions to …
Last night I had a very strange dream. It was a hell of a dream! The dream was so good that I rolled over and called into work. There was something unsettling about the dream now that I’m wide awake and thinking about it… I dreamed I was fucking my …
This blog is my response to your survey responses about Sapphire and to one crazy ass bitch, who won’t take a fucking hike. Most of your surveys were respectful and to the point. I appreciate those of you who kept it real without coming at me on some disrespectful bullshit. …
Sapphire is going to be my wife. I’m more convinced of that now than ever before. Our relationship has taken a turn, and it seems we’re both ready to take some necessary steps to grow with each other in a positive direction… Yesterday, Sapphire made an unannounced visit to my …
Does a woman sexual history matter? This is the question I ask myself whenever I meet a woman. The short answer is yes it does matter, but is there ever a situation when it’s not so black and white? In my mid/late twenties I was arguably a hoe. I went …
I have created a new Facebook discussion group. The group is directly connected to my Facebook page. The purpose of the group is to interact with the people who follow my Facebook page and build a community of black lesbians. I don’t know how it will work out as I’ve …
I’ve been in a mood all day and it’s because of my morning visit and conversation with my gynecologist. I hate going to the gynecologist, but it’s a necessary evil. This was my annual visit that was supposed to take place last December. My gynecologist got pregnant with twins and …
Days ago I met the most attractive black lesbian I’ve run across in a very long time. Yet her circumstances turned her into the most undesirable and unattractive woman in less than an hour after I met her. Let me tell you about it… A few days ago while hanging …
Situationships can be tricky. I’m currently in a lesbian situationship with Dollar Bill. This means we’re fucking with no commitment. Feelings are developing but still no commitment. I live my life. She lives her life. In between there are other women in the picture both on my part and her …
I’m currently engaged in a casual sexual relationship with an older black woman. I have mixed feelings about it. Let me explain… I swore off casual sex. I had more than enough of that in my twenties and at this point in my life I’m ready to commit myself to …
Chopping down a woman with a strap…this will be a good topic. This post stems from a conversation I had with a friend. This particular friend is a stud. She believes if a woman likes getting strapped she is bisexual and likes men (I mean how else do you explain …
I’m no longer celibate. I had sex with an old flame: Sapphire. It happened Saturday night. We were supposed to go see the movie Black Panther. When we showed up at the theater the line was so long that we just turned around and drove back to Sapphire’s loft. We …
I have a checklist. Everyone has a checklist. A checklist is basically a list of things I’m looking for in a woman. You might even call it my No Bullshit List. I don’t leave home without it. I’ve owned and copyrighted my list since I was 25 years old. Not …
This blog is an update on my love life, which is semi-non-existent. Let’s start with Chocolate… Chocolate and I had one date. I paid a friend, who is a chef, to come over and teach Chocolate and I how to prepare a dish. Chocolate loves to cook. So, I thought …
