It’s been a long time. I know. I needed a break. Life has been a little crazy lately, but mostly in a good way…. I started my new position with the company where I work months ago. I went through training, and now I’m working from home. I still haven’t …
I’m thinking maybe I need to do some soul-searching. This realization comes from a conversation I had today with a co-worker/friend. It all began innocent enough with me asking her about a fine woman at the job, but then it turned into her telling me about myself… Long story short…she’s …
It’s over between Ms. Feel Good and me. I know you’re probably thinking, “Damn that was quick” but the decision was ultimately mine. Saturday I decided to let go and move on with my life… The biggest issue we seem to have is our age difference. She is twelve years …
I have a new lady in my life and I couldn’t be happier. As with most of my women, it was completely random. Let me tell you about it… On Saturday I went to CVS to pick up the medication I was prescribed by my doctor for an ear infection. …
In 2019 I plan to make some changes in my life. I know you’ve heard that from me before, but this time it’s out of necessity more than anything else. I’m doing it for my sanity and personal well-being. Next year I’ll be thirty-four years old. Time sure does fly …
Caribbean Queen is no more. She got dismissed several weeks ago. It wasn’t meant to be because after I made a decision to dismiss her I didn’t feel anything. No regrets. No sorrow. Nothing…. This all started on a Saturday when Caribbean Queen invited me to her house for dinner. …
I know it’s been a minute since I last blogged. A lot has changed in my life, and one day I’ll get around to blogging about those things. However, for this blog I want to write about something that has been on my mind. When it comes to sex I …
Special thanks to Indigo for sharing this video with me. The video makes a case for polyamory. It’s good stuff. Check it out… For those of you giving me the side-eye for admitting I desire to fuck other women while also being in a relationship….consider this… Most black women are …
My life has taken a drastic turn, and I couldn’t be happier. Part of me believes this was inevitable. As much as I want to get married and raise a family I must admit there is something unappealing about monogamous relationships. It doesn’t matter how great my partner is and …
I’ve been missing in action from this blog, and that’s because I’ve been sitting around feeling bad about myself for being attracted to another woman who is NOT Sapphire. I mean I’ve really been feeling bad about myself. Not simply because I’m attracted to this woman, but because I’ve been …
Soul food, soul music, and my soulmate…three things I love! At this point, it shouldn’t be a secret that I love soul music, soul food, and Sapphire. There is nothing more beautiful to me than all three coming together like they did on Monday… Recall, that I planned to give …
“You are the last person I need in my life!” That’s what I said to Yellowbone yesterday after I walked away from the table we shared at the food court at the mall. I’m quite certain she was surprised, but it is the truth, and I’m glad I said what …
Yellowbone has literally breezed back into my life. I’m tired and I don’t feel like writing a whole post. I’ll get around to that this weekend. All I have to say is WHY LORD….WHY??
Indigo and I discuss my solution to the WNBA’s problems. The league is not making any money. Yet many of the players want to be paid more and some are even pointing out a disparity between their salary and that of men in the NBA. I offer my solutions to …
Last night I had a very strange dream. It was a hell of a dream! The dream was so good that I rolled over and called into work. There was something unsettling about the dream now that I’m wide awake and thinking about it… I dreamed I was fucking my …
This blog is my response to your survey responses about Sapphire and to one crazy ass bitch, who won’t take a fucking hike. Most of your surveys were respectful and to the point. I appreciate those of you who kept it real without coming at me on some disrespectful bullshit. …
Sapphire is going to be my wife. I’m more convinced of that now than ever before. Our relationship has taken a turn, and it seems we’re both ready to take some necessary steps to grow with each other in a positive direction… Yesterday, Sapphire made an unannounced visit to my …
Does a woman sexual history matter? This is the question I ask myself whenever I meet a woman. The short answer is yes it does matter, but is there ever a situation when it’s not so black and white? In my mid/late twenties I was arguably a hoe. I went …
I have created a new Facebook discussion group. The group is directly connected to my Facebook page. The purpose of the group is to interact with the people who follow my Facebook page and build a community of black lesbians. I don’t know how it will work out as I’ve …
I’ve been in a mood all day and it’s because of my morning visit and conversation with my gynecologist. I hate going to the gynecologist, but it’s a necessary evil. This was my annual visit that was supposed to take place last December. My gynecologist got pregnant with twins and …
