Sapphire is going to be my wife. I’m more convinced of that now than ever before. Our relationship has taken a turn, and it seems we’re both ready to take some necessary steps to grow with each other in a positive direction… Yesterday, Sapphire made an unannounced visit to my …
Does a woman sexual history matter? This is the question I ask myself whenever I meet a woman. The short answer is yes it does matter, but is there ever a situation when it’s not so black and white? In my mid/late twenties I was arguably a hoe. I went …
I have created a new Facebook discussion group. The group is directly connected to my Facebook page. The purpose of the group is to interact with the people who follow my Facebook page and build a community of black lesbians. I don’t know how it will work out as I’ve …
I’ve been in a mood all day and it’s because of my morning visit and conversation with my gynecologist. I hate going to the gynecologist, but it’s a necessary evil. This was my annual visit that was supposed to take place last December. My gynecologist got pregnant with twins and …
Days ago I met the most attractive black lesbian I’ve run across in a very long time. Yet her circumstances turned her into the most undesirable and unattractive woman in less than an hour after I met her. Let me tell you about it… A few days ago while hanging …
Situationships can be tricky. I’m currently in a lesbian situationship with Dollar Bill. This means we’re fucking with no commitment. Feelings are developing but still no commitment. I live my life. She lives her life. In between there are other women in the picture both on my part and her …
I’m currently engaged in a casual sexual relationship with an older black woman. I have mixed feelings about it. Let me explain… I swore off casual sex. I had more than enough of that in my twenties and at this point in my life I’m ready to commit myself to …
Chopping down a woman with a strap…this will be a good topic. This post stems from a conversation I had with a friend. This particular friend is a stud. She believes if a woman likes getting strapped she is bisexual and likes men (I mean how else do you explain …
I’m no longer celibate. I had sex with an old flame: Sapphire. It happened Saturday night. We were supposed to go see the movie Black Panther. When we showed up at the theater the line was so long that we just turned around and drove back to Sapphire’s loft. We …
I have a checklist. Everyone has a checklist. A checklist is basically a list of things I’m looking for in a woman. You might even call it my No Bullshit List. I don’t leave home without it. I’ve owned and copyrighted my list since I was 25 years old. Not …
This blog is an update on my love life, which is semi-non-existent. Let’s start with Chocolate… Chocolate and I had one date. I paid a friend, who is a chef, to come over and teach Chocolate and I how to prepare a dish. Chocolate loves to cook. So, I thought …
There is nothing worse than being sexually and physically attracted to a woman you can’t fuck. That’s exactly how I feel about Red, the bisexual that reminded me of why I don’t fuck with bisexuals. It’s hard as hell having to see this woman five days a week every week. …
